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White Water Rapids Ahead!

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I met Myrin on Veteran’s Day while we were both waiting for our vehicles to get repaired at Sears.  He was tall in stature and had a quiet confidence about him combined with an overwhelming sense of contentment.  I enjoyed our banter as we patiently waited and was quickly entranced by this 82 year old man’s epic tales of adventure that had ensued.  Myrin spoke eloquently as he told me stories of the 21 cars he owned during his life, his wife Katherine, who passed 11 years earlier, his twin sister Marian who died in a tragic fire when she was 8, and his 36 years at IBM ~ 36 years!

As I listened I couldn’t help but wonder what epic tales my own children will tell when they are 82.  I had images of the “Did You Know?” video going through my head of kids having multiple careers in their lifetime.  It seems clear that the days of having one career over the course of 36 years are extinct.2716750582_e64db67529_o

The metaphor that helps me get my head around that kind of future is one of a white water rafting journey.  Winding down an unpredictable, unstable, and somewhat uncomfortable river that require one’s full attention to not only stay afloat and navigate the turbulent waters but to be mindful of possible opportunities as well.  This would not be accomplished alone, rather with a team of people that each specialize in a certain duty and yet have the flexibility to make decisions as needed.  I am sure there would be times of tranquil waters, but as in any white water adventure those moments are limited and rough waters lie ahead with sudden drops and unexpected obstacles that require immediate attention.

Perhaps that is a bit a grim but I wonder are we really preparing students for this kind of future?  A future where the routine is in the fact that there is no routine.  A future where they will have to rely on a variety of skill sets that must be transposed over multiple areas; skills that Sir Ken Robinson, David Warlick, Ian Jukes, and Daniel Pink speak of; skills that Peter Senge, Gary Stager, Steven Covey, and Daniel Goleman and so many others speak of.

I do not claim to have the answers to these questions but I am eager to begin discussing the possibilities.  I am willing to jump into the river to navigate my way down the rapids in order to eventually help others find their way as well.

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7 Habits of Highly Effective People

I am scheduled to attend Stephen Covey’s Signature Professional Development Seminar called 7 Habits of Highly Effective People in a couple of weeks, and I have been given a bit of homework before the conference begins.

Here is an excerpt of the assignment:

How to Get the Most Out of Your 7 Habits Experience

Like a warm-up before a workout, this 7 Habits Warm-Up will only take you about 10–15 minutes to complete and will make a huge difference in the value you get out of the program.

To complete your Warm-Up, please do these things:

1. Read “The Promise.”
2. Answer the preparation questions.

Please bring these Warm-Up pages with you to the program.

Read “The Promise”

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Signature Program is one of the most respected and popular learning experiences available. These habits will have a significant and positive impact on your life. Below is a summary of the 7 Habits and the kind of results you can expect. Take a few moments and note which of these promises interests you most. Draw a circle around the ones you really want to focus on.

Habit 1: Be Proactive ~ The Habit of Choice
Promise

  • You’ll find out how to take charge of your own future.
  • You’ll increase your influence at work and in your life

Habit 2: Begin With the End in Mind ~ The Habit of Vision
Promise

  • You’ll do things and achieve the goals you’ve always wanted to.
  • You’ll have a greater sense of purpose and fulfillment in your life.

Habit 3: Put First Things First ~ The Habit of Integrity and Execution
Promise

  • You’ll be less crisis-driven and more in control of your life and your time.
  • You’ll enjoy more life balance and peace of mind.

Habit 4: Think Win-Win ~ The Habit of Mutual Benefit
Promise

  • You’ll build dramatically stronger and more productive relationships
  • You’ll discover ways to solve problems and build relationships at the same time.

Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood ~ The Habit of Mutual Understanding
Promise

  • You’ll grow in understanding of the most important people in your life.
  • You’ll improve your ability to communicate effectively.

Habit 6: Synergize ~ The Habit of Creative Cooperation
Promise

  • You’ll be able to deal more productively with conflict
  • You’ll be able to find strikingly creative solutions to problems and opportunities

Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw ~ The Habit of Renewal
Promise

  • You’ll find yourself growing and improving, feeling better, and living a more purposeful life.
  • You’ll have greater work and life balance.

Answer the Preparation Questions

With those promises in mind, think about the following questions and write your answers below. Please bring this page with you to the program.

1. Where would I really like to become more effective in my life (e.g., relationships, projects, goals I’m working on)?

2. What long-term contribution would I really like to make in my current role at work?

3. What is the most significant thing I could do in my work that, if done consistently, would have the most positive impact?

4. What is the most significant thing I could do in my personal life that, if done consistently, would have the most positive impact?

I have read Dr. Covey’s book, 7 Habits of Highly Effective People years ago but do believe it’s time to dust that classic off and give it a reread. I will answer the questions above over the course of the next couple of days here at my blog. In the meantime, here is Stephen Covey speaking to Habit 1: Be Proactive

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Constantly Developing New Ideas

A line from the book A Whole New Mind by Daniel Pink has me wondering.

“The forces of Abundance, Asia, and Automation turn goods and services into commodities so quickly that the only way to survive is by constantly developing new innovations, inventing new categories, and (in Paola Antonelli’s lovely phrase) giving the world something it didn’t know it was missing.”

This is pretty much where I am at- always on the edge… “thinking” of virtually every aspect of my life whether it’s in or out of the classroom. However, life long learning has its unforeseen consequences of never really reaching a final destination, to constantly strive for something more and never really anchoring the boat.

I do believe it’s about balance, but inevitably there really is no such thing (At least I haven’t found it yet). There are times when I walk away from the laptop, unplug or power down but my mind is still in full gear.

The hook is in deep and it’s not coming out.

Don’t get me wrong, I understand that it’s not about the final destination but rather to enjoy the journey along the way, and I am…really. I think I am just overwhelmed and realizing it truly is a “life long” journey. There is a lengthy road ahead where we will “all” have to solve problems that don’t yet exist using technologies that have yet to be invented. We are also charged with solving the problems of the generations before us, whether they be environmental, economic, or racial.

A bit of a rant I know, but the distant memories of my childhood seem to be flooding my fore thinking where time once seemed endless. My days were spent in the depths of the seclusive creek building forts, turning over slippery rocks to see what lies beneath, and exploring well beyond the boundaries of my yard with my trusty canine companion, Tasha. There still is a part of me that longs for a moment of those remembered days…ordinary days without having to “constantly be thinking about developing new ideas, inventing new categories, or trying to give the world something it didn’t know it was missing.”

Conceptually, I understand that we are all in this together and each of us has to share the load if we are ever going to make real change, substantial change that will benefit our children. I will keep on keeping on but it sure would be nice to hit the pause button just for a moment; or maybe even the rewind button.

I wonder, how do you find a balance during the extraordinary times we are living in?